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Archive for November, 2010
Kids are copycats- Thoughts on parenting
Originally posted on Chapel Hill Internet Campus.
As a parent of a little one, I’ve noticed that my daughter LOVES to copy the behaviors of her mama and daddy. She imitates our adult actions by talking on toy phones, by playing dress up in big people clothes, and even literally walking in our shoes. Kids are copycats.
While this form of flattery is immensely heart-melting, this degree of direct imitation should also be sobering. It should remind us that our kids are watching. They’re like little sponges, and they’re watching. Their eyes are fixed and their ears are attentive. They absorb our words and soak up our mannerisms. Kids are copycats.
How will they respond to a frustrating situation? What will they hold in high regard and value? Where will they put their trust? They’ll do as their parents did.
Never forget, kids are copycats.
Talk it over:
- Have you ever caught one of your children mimicking your every move?
- What are some practical ways of modeling desired behaviors to our kids?